17 porn slang terms to learn

Getting into porn as a creator or a viewer is exhilarating and oftentimes confusing.

What did he just ask for? What am I going to see when I click on those words? The sex and skin industries have developed a whole bunch of slang and acronyms for the content you make and see.

If you don’t want to grab a dictionary as you grab your dick, we’ve got what you need. When a buyer comes to you on SinParty with a request you don’t understand, here’s where you’ll get your answers.

We’re going to look at all the porn terminology and sex slang you need to know. Tell us what we’ve missed in the comments!

What does porn terminology mean?

G/G or gg

Girl on girl – this describes lesbian pornography, where the action is all about two or more women having sex. You’d also refer to two women getting it on in a threesome as g/g.

 It’s generally an industry term rather than something porn viewer will search for or buyers will ask for. You will hear it used by other models and creators, “do you do g/g content?” for example since not everyone who makes lesbian porn will identify as lesbian.

B/G or bg

Boy on girl – pretty self-explanatory, right?You’d be very unlikely to find anyone who’d search for “b/g porn” – although it takes all kinds.

Again, this is very much a way to describe a scene or shoot by models, creators and directors. “We’re ready for the b/g scene” is how you’d hear it used. It can be used to describe a group or party sex scene too – if there’ll be men and women banging in any way, it’s a b/g scene.

FFM

Female, female, male – this acronym is used to describe the make up of a threesome, two women and one man. In this threesome set up, there’s likely to be girl on girl action along as well as a man getting a lot of attention from two women.

In real life, this type of scenario is likely to be either three strangers hooking up or a male and female couple inviting another woman into their sex sessions. Some lesbian couples may invite a man into the mix, but it’s less common.

MMF

Male, male, female – as you’ve probably guessed, this means a threesome with two men and a woman getting laid. Most straight porn will focus on two dicks getting fucked and sucked by a woman with double penetration likely.

Real world MMF threesomes can and often will entail the men kissing, touching, and even having sex with the women involved as well. There are no rules with threesome; just because that’s how porn does it doesn’t mean that how your sex has to happen.

BDSM

Bondage and discipline, dominant and submissive, sadism and masochism – basically, these four letters have come to mean a whole range of kinks. To break these terms down:

• Bondage – someone getting tied up or bound so they can’t move part of their body during sex and other sexy play
• Discipline – controlling another person by punishing them for bad behaviour, with the rules discussed and consented to beforehand
• Dominant – a person who takes control during sex and sometimes outside of the bedroom; they control things like positions, activities, and orgasms
• Submissive – they’re subject to the dominant and will submit to anything they get told, with the boundaries of what can and can’t be demanded consented to first
• Sadism – getting off on inflicting pain, suffering, and humiliation to another person, generally in a sexual context
• Masochism – being turned on by being humiliated and made to feel pain and suffering – more than likely from a sadist

These can be kinks or fetishes and buyers are likely to ask for content around these ideas. Some creators specialize in these concepts.

MILF

Mom I’d like to fuck – anyone who’s ever seen the original American Pie movie will know all about MILFs and it’s a common fantasy among men. In fact, MILF is regularly one of the most popular porn searches on the internet.

There’s no real rule that someone making MILF porn has to be a mom, they just need to be mature. In the skin game, that’s generally in the early- to mid-thirties, but you can find MILF porn where the woman is as young as late 20s.

GILF

Grandma I’d like to fuck – this is pretty much a MILF but older. That said, GILFs will tend to have a more mature face with wrinkles more evident and boobs that aren’t quite so perky.

What you’ll notice with GILF porn is that the man is invariably much younger. The character in the clip is likely to be portrayed as young as 18 and the woman tends to be a step-grandma or the grandma of a friend.

POV

Point of view – watching porn, you might want to get fully into the fantasy and imagine what it’d be like actually fucking the person on screen. With a POV shot, it’s made much easier because you see what one of the characters sees.

If you make content with a partner, you may well get asked for POV content. Create it by mounting camera like a Go-Pro on your partner’s head so your viewers can see exactly what they see as they fuck you.

PPV

Pay-per-view – you’re as likely to hear pay-per-view about the latest boxing match as you are porn. It’s a commonly used term for creators and buyers.

When you’re creating content for a site like SinParty, you can post:

• Content that’s free for anyone to view
• Videos and photos that can be viewed by people who pay your monthly subscription
• Pay-per-view videos that anyone can pay to unlock

Giving you extra income streams.

Your fans can also request custom videos from you which they order and pay for, with payment held until you send the content. This is another type of PPV you might get asked for.

GFE

The girlfriend experience – life can get lonely and sometimes people just want to pay to pretend they have a girlfriend.

It’s a common service that sex workers offer, either in person or virtually. Some of things that might be expected in an online girlfriend experience include:

• Good morning and goodnight texts
• Dedicated time for messaging
• Sexting, including pictures depending on the agreement
• Accepting having dick pics sent

Along with anything else that the two people agree on.

If the agreement is a real life one, the sex on offer is likely to be more gentle, softcore, and there’ll likely be kissing and cuddling.

In terms of sex, the girlfriend experience is pretty much the opposite of the porn star experience.

PSE

The porn star experience – when a person paying for sex wants to get everything they see their favorite porn star do, they’re asking for the porn star experience.

It’s not a service that easily translates online although it’s possible a subscriber to your party could ask for a video showing you doing PSE.

Checking out hardcore porn videos should give you an idea of the type of content they want, but expect them to demand:

• Deep throat blowjobs
• Anal sex, often followed by a blowjob
• Sex in multiple positions
• Dirty talking

Findom

Financial domination – some people get off on letting another person spend all their money and be dominated by that person; this is financial domination or findom.

There are different ways that a findom arrangement can work, such as:

• The dominant receiving regular payments
• Draining a bank account or credit card
• Demanding payments so the submissive person can get attention
• Having expensive gifts bought for the dome

There is a rush for the submissive person as someone takes control of their money. Of course, the findom gets cash and gifts and anything else they want.

Elements of age play can come into this, with the dominant person often behaving like a bratty, demanding, or spoilt teenager.

BBW

Big beautiful women – you might hear different meanings of BBW, but most people know it as big beautiful women. That is, women who are curvy, with a big ass, big boobs, and a big belly.

It can refer to a type of porn where you see women who aren’t the standard thin, taut, and busty type that you see in mainstream porn. Expect to see women who have some bounce to their bodies having the same sex as normal.

You won’t find any hard and fast rules about BBW porn – anyone can decide to use this porn terminology to refer to themselves.

BBW is also used in online dating to let potential matches understand your body type. The male equivalent is BHM, or big handsome man, but this isn’t as well-known or used.

Creampie

Cum in the pussy or ass – got someone asking you to do a creampie video for them?

They probably don’t want a video of you eat a cream pie or doing anything sexual with baked good. A creampie is when the jizz goes inside your pussy or ass and the camera gets up close and watches as it dribbles out.

In lots of porn, you’ll see the dick get pulled out before it cums and the receiver take the cum in their mouths or on their face. This is why seeing cum in the holes is in demand.

If you live in a place where prostitution isn’t illegal, you may be asked for this service from a customer. It means they won’t be wearing a condom which will be a health risk so decide if you’re happy with that and be sure to charge extra.

CBT

Cock and ball torture – lots of people will be crossing their legs at the thought of this, but it’s a perfectly valid kink that lots of men and penis-havers are into. Ain’t no kink shaming here – we’re down with whatever gets you off.

Every person who enjoys this will like something a little different, but in general you can expect to see:

• Standing on the penis
• Standing on the balls
• Twisting the ball sack
• Spanking the cock and balls
• Squeezing, kneeling on, or kicking

Anything that could cause a pain and allow the receiver to explore the pleasure/pain barrier goes here. Dripping hot wax or getting aggressive with your teeth might also be asked.

Hentai

Japanese cartoon porn – Hentai is one of the most popular porn genres on the internet.

If you’ve ever watched an anime cartoon or read a manga comic, just add in huge tits, sex with tentacles, other large dicks, and some pixilation, and you’ve got hentai.

Unless you’re an amazing artist, you’ll struggle to sell hentai content. It can’t be made with your body and a camera, after all!

However, you can play to the same fetish and make cosplay content. This means that you get into fancy dress as the famous characters from cartoons – including hentai – stay in character, and make porn.

FSSW

Full-service sex worker – a person who has sex for money, along with making content online or stripping, is a full-service sex worker.

First, it’s important to point out that there are parts of the world where it’s perfectly legal for a person to sell sex, such as:

• The state of Nevada, USA
• The state of Victoria, Australia
• The Netherlands

To name just a few famous places.

Before deciding to start FSSW, you should always check your local laws and don’t break them or risk getting into trouble. Only ever exchange sex for money when it’s legal, you feel safe, and you have the right security and processes to allow it.

Making content on SinParty or other platforms, working live cams, getting paid to sext, etc., are all other forms of sex work but they’re not full-service.